Torn

Have you ever been torn between what you want and what may be best for you?  I am contemplating this thought now as I pour out my thoughts onto this electronic piece of paper.  My husband is intent on eventually moving out to Florida to be with his family, while I would much  rather move to Washington so as not to be on the complete opposite side of the country and away from my family.  Being in the Army the past 8 years has definitely separated me from my friends and family quite enough.  However, I want for my husband to be close to his family and content as well.  It seems there truly is no happy medium in this matter, so how do you compromise in order to ensure we are both content?  Just as with every other question I have, it seems there is no simple or easy answer to this burning question I have ruminating through my thoughts on a daily basis.  I want to be supportive of my husband and ensure his happiness, but I definitely don't want to be separated from my family either, as I have been for some time now.